Ricky Skaggs – If That’s The Way You Feel

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Introduction

Some songs don’t just tell a story—they make you feel it deep in your bones. “If That’s The Way You Feel” is one of those songs that perfectly captures the raw ache of watching love slip away, even when you’re not quite ready to let it go. It’s the kind of song that makes your chest tighten, because it’s not just about heartbreak—it’s about that helpless moment when you realize you can’t change someone’s mind.

From the very first line, this song carries a quiet kind of devastation. It doesn’t beg or plead; it just lays the truth bare—if that’s how you feel, then there’s nothing left to say. The lyrics cut through the heartache with an almost resigned acceptance, making it even more painful in its honesty. There’s no anger, no dramatic confrontation—just the slow, sinking feeling of love unraveling.

Whether you’ve lived through a moment like this or just fear the day you might, “If That’s The Way You Feel” hits home. It’s the soundtrack to every love that faded before its time, every goodbye that wasn’t easy but had to be said. And the beauty of the song? It doesn’t just dwell in the sorrow—it reminds us that sometimes, even when it hurts, we have to let go.

If you’ve ever held onto love just a little too long, this song understands you. And maybe, just maybe, that’s why it lingers long after the last note fades

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Lyrics

I don’t blame you for I know you want him
That your love for me was never real
I could hold you but you’d be unhappy
But it’s all right if that’s the way you feel
I know that I will always go on caring
And my feelings, now, I must conceal
I still need you and I want you with me
But it’s all right if that’s the way you feel
I always knew someday I would lose you
When those lies about me were revealed
It’s plain to see, sweetheart, you believe them
But it’s all right if that’s the way you feel
I know that I will always go on caring
And my feelings, now, I must conceal
I still need you and I want you with me
But it’s all right if that’s the way you feel
But it’s all right if that’s the way you feel

Country Music

THEY WERE SINGING No. 1 HITS WHILE LAWYERS WERE BURNING THROUGH THE MONEY THEY EARNED ON THE ROAD. THE TROUBLE WASN’T A BAD RECORD OR A BROKEN BAND — IT WAS THE NAME PRINTED ACROSS THE FRONT OF THE DRUM KIT. Shenandoah had entered the 1990s exactly where a country band wanted to be. “Next to You, Next to Me” spent three weeks at No. 1, Extra Mile went gold, and the Academy of Country Music named them Vocal Group of the Year. Behind the stage lights, however, another clock had started running. The irony was that Shenandoah had never really been their first choice. Drummer Mike McGuire later said the musicians had wanted the name Diamond Rio. Their production company pushed them toward Shenandoah instead — and, according to McGuire, failed to run the trademark search that might have shown other bands were already using it. Then the letters from lawyers began arriving. Groups in several states claimed rights to the same name. One dispute was settled, then others followed. At one point, Marty Raybon recalled, Shenandoah had 11 attorneys on retainer. Every additional show helped pay legal bills, so the band worked harder while spending more time away from home simply to keep fighting for the right to remain Shenandoah. By 1991, the fight had consumed more than $2 million in settlements and legal costs. The band filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy. Their relationship with Columbia eventually ended, even though they ultimately kept the name. For many bands, that would have been the closing paragraph. Shenandoah signed with RCA instead. “Rock My Baby” reached No. 2 in 1992. The following year, Under the Kudzu produced another No. 1 with “If Bubba Can Dance (I Can Too).” Then came “Somewhere in the Vicinity of the Heart” with Alison Krauss, earning Shenandoah its first Grammy. And somewhere inside that comeback sat one final Nashville irony. The name Diamond Rio — the one Shenandoah had wanted before anyone had heard of them — eventually became the name of another country band entirely. By then, Shenandoah had spent millions making sure the name they never originally wanted was still theirs.

Country Music

BILL MONROE HANDED HIS MANDOLIN TO A SIX-YEAR-OLD RICKY SKAGGS AND PUT HIM ONSTAGE. DECADES LATER, THAT BOY HELPED BRING BLUEGRASS BACK INTO MAINSTREAM COUNTRY. It happened in Martha, Kentucky, in the early 1960s. Skaggs had been carrying a mandolin almost as long as he could remember; his father, Hobert, had bought him one when he was five and taught him the old mountain music that filled their home. When Monroe’s Blue Grass Boys came through town, Hobert took Ricky to the show. Somewhere in the crowd, people began telling Monroe about the little boy who could play. Monroe called him up. The instrument hanging from the six-year-old’s shoulders was enormous against his small frame, but Skaggs played “Ruby, Are You Mad at Your Man?” beside the man widely regarded as the father of bluegrass. Years later, Skaggs still remembered Monroe’s gesture as one of the moments that set the direction of his life. By seven, another door had opened. Lester Flatt and Earl Scruggs heard him play and brought him onto their television program. By his teens, Skaggs was working with Keith Whitley in Ralph Stanley’s Clinch Mountain Boys, learning the music not from records but night after night beside the people who had built it. Then Nashville pulled him somewhere unexpected. Emmylou Harris brought Skaggs into her Hot Band in 1977, putting his fiddle and mandolin inside a country-rock world far removed from the mountain stages of his childhood. A few years later, when Skaggs launched his solo country career, he carried that older sound with him rather than sanding it away. It should have been a difficult fit for early-1980s radio. Instead, “Crying My Heart Out Over You” reached No. 1 in 1982. “Heartbroke,” “Highway 40 Blues” and a string of other chart-toppers followed, while the Country Music Association named him Male Vocalist of the Year in 1982 and Entertainer of the Year in 1985. By then, the little mandolin player from eastern Kentucky had become one of the artists helping turn mainstream country back toward fiddles, harmony singing and bluegrass precision. Bill Monroe lived long enough to see that happen. And when Monroe died in 1996, one of the men chosen to serve as an honorary pallbearer was Ricky Skaggs — the same boy Monroe had once called out of a Kentucky audience and trusted, for a few minutes, with his mandolin.

Country Music

MARTINA McBRIDE WENT ON TOUR WITH GARTH BROOKS SELLING T-SHIRTS. A FEW YEARS LATER, SHE WAS WALKING ONSTAGE TO OPEN HIS SHOWS. Martina McBride moved to Nashville with her husband John in January 1990, just as country music was entering one of its biggest commercial eras. John found work as a sound engineer and, in 1991, became production manager for Garth Brooks. Martina was still trying to build a singing career, but she also wanted to spend more time with her husband, so she joined the tour in a very different role. She sold T-shirts. While Brooks was filling arenas, Martina worked the merchandise table and kept trying to get her own voice heard in Nashville. She recorded a five-song demo and began approaching labels, but RCA had strict rules against accepting unsolicited material. Martina found a way around them. She put the cassette inside a bright purple package and wrote “REQUESTED MATERIAL” across the front in large letters, even though nobody at RCA had requested it. The package made it through. RCA listened to the tape and signed Martina McBride in 1991. Her debut album, The Time Has Come, arrived in May 1992. It leaned heavily toward traditional country and earned some critical praise, but commercially it struggled and failed to give Martina the breakthrough she needed. Still, the record deal had already changed her place on Garth Brooks’ tour. By the summer of 1992, Martina was no longer working behind the merchandise table. She was opening shows for Brooks, including his sold-out appearance at the Forum in Los Angeles that July. The jump was enormous. Brooks was playing some of the biggest rooms in country music, while Martina was being asked to walk out in front of those crowds before she had a major hit of her own. She later described the experience as “sink or swim.” It forced her to learn quickly how to command an arena and trust herself onstage. The first album still did not take off. Her second one did. With The Way That I Am in 1993, Martina stopped second-guessing herself as much. “My Baby Loves Me” became a major hit, “Life No. 9” followed, and “Independence Day” helped establish the kind of strong, message-driven material that would become central to her career. By 1994, she was touring with Brooks again, this time with hit records behind her and European dates ahead. Garth Brooks gave Martina McBride access to enormous audiences before country radio had fully decided what to do with her. But the first real door had opened earlier, back in Nashville, when a five-song cassette arrived at RCA inside a purple package carrying two words that were technically untrue. “REQUESTED MATERIAL.” Sometimes the difference between an unheard demo and a record contract was simply getting someone to open the package.

Ricky Skaggs – If That’s The Way You Feel

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