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Introduction

There are songs that make you tap your feet. There are songs that get stuck in your head.
And then there are songs like this one — that sit quietly beside you and hold your heart for a while.

“Cryin’ for Me (Wayman’s Song)” isn’t just a tribute. It’s a deeply personal goodbye.

Written after the passing of Toby Keith’s close friend Wayman Tisdale — a former NBA star turned jazz musician — the song feels like an open letter that was never meant for the radio. It’s soft-spoken, but powerful. There’s no anger, no bitterness. Just love, sorrow, and the kind of grief that comes from losing someone who left too soon, but lived well.

The lyrics are honest and unpolished, as if Toby is speaking directly to his friend:
“I’m not cryin’ ‘cause I feel so sorry for you. I’m cryin’ for me.”

What really brings the song to life is the music itself — especially with Marcus Miller on bass and Dave Koz’s soulful saxophone wrapping around Toby’s voice like a warm memory. The blend of country and jazz doesn’t just work — it feels right. It captures the spirit of Wayman, who bridged those worlds so effortlessly in his own life.

If you’ve ever lost someone who made the room brighter just by walking in — you’ll understand this song immediately. It doesn’t shout its pain. It sits with it. Honors it. And lets it breathe.

It reminds us: sometimes the best way to say “I love you” is simply to say, “I miss you.”

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TERRI CLARK MOVED FROM CANADA TO NASHVILLE AT 18 AND STARTED SINGING FOR TIPS AT TOOTSIE’S. SHE COULD SEE THE COUNTRY-MUSIC BUSINESS AROUND HER — BUT IT TOOK NEARLY EIGHT YEARS BEFORE ANY LABEL LET HER THROUGH THE DOOR. Terri Clark left Medicine Hat, Alberta, for Nashville as a teenager with little more than a guitar and a very clear idea of what she wanted. Soon after arriving, she walked into **Tootsie’s Orchid Lounge**, the famous honky-tonk across the alley from the Ryman Auditorium, asked if she could sing and landed work performing for tips. It was her first professional Nashville gig. The location made the situation almost cruelly appropriate. Tootsie’s sat in the middle of country-music mythology, close enough to the Ryman and Music Row to make Nashville success feel physically nearby. Clark later remembered playing those clubs hoping that somebody from the industry might hear her voice drifting out and offer her a record deal. Nobody did. For years, she kept singing while taking whatever work helped pay the bills. She waited tables, worked as a secretary, painted houses, worked retail and tended bar. One contemporary profile put the wait at roughly **eight years** between her arrival in Nashville and the record deal she had come there to find. There were days when even Tootsie’s barely paid. Clark has recalled taking a city bus downtown with her guitar to work the daytime shift and occasionally walking out with only a few dollars in tips because almost nobody had come through the bar. Still, the years were doing something a demo tape could not. She was learning how to hold a room. A producer who heard Clark at Tootsie’s eventually passed a tape to manager Woody Bowles. She continued developing for several more years, and in 1994 Mercury Nashville finally signed her. Then the pace changed almost immediately. Her debut single, **“Better Things to Do,”** arrived in 1995 and climbed to No. 3 on the U.S. country chart. “When Boy Meets Girl” and “If I Were You” followed into the Top 10, while her self-titled debut album eventually went platinum. Clark had written or co-written almost the entire record herself. The following year alone, she spent more than **260 days on the road**. That number says more about the turnaround than almost anything else. For most of her twenties, Terri Clark had been working Nashville bars while waiting for somebody in the industry to notice. Once they finally did, the problem was no longer finding somewhere to sing. It was finding enough days in the year to play all the places that suddenly wanted her.

WHEN THE FIRST EDITION BROKE UP, KENNY ROGERS SAID IT FELT LIKE HIS LIFE HAD LOST ITS FOOTING. HE WALKED ONSTAGE ALONE, STARTED OVER — AND WITHIN TWO YEARS “LUCILLE” TURNED HIM INTO A SOLO SUPERSTAR. By the mid-1970s, Kenny Rogers was hardly an unknown. The First Edition had already given him major pop and country hits, including “Just Dropped In (To See What Condition My Condition Was In)” and “Ruby, Don’t Take Your Love to Town.” For years, Rogers had been surrounded by the same musicians, the same road routine and the security of belonging to a group. Then the band ended. The First Edition broke apart in the mid-1970s as its members moved toward separate careers. Rogers later admitted the split hit him harder than outsiders might have expected. “When the First Edition broke up,” he recalled, “it was like my life had just lost all the footing.” For the first time, there was nobody behind him to absorb part of the pressure. Rogers signed with United Artists and began making records under his own name. The first releases produced modest results, but nothing yet suggested that the 38-year-old singer was about to become bigger than he had ever been with a band. Then he heard “Lucille.” Written by Roger Bowling and Hal Bynum, the song told a simple story: a woman leaves her husband in a bar, and the man she leaves with later hears the husband’s side of what happened. Rogers recorded it in 1976. Released the following year, “Lucille” went to No. 1 country and No. 5 pop, won Rogers a Grammy and was named CMA Single of the Year. More importantly, it solved the identity problem. Rogers was no longer the singer from a psychedelic pop group trying to continue on his own. “Lucille” revealed exactly what would carry the next phase of his career: a rough, conversational voice and story songs about ordinary people making painful choices. “The Gambler,” “She Believes in Me” and “Coward of the County” followed soon afterward. Between 1977 and 1987, Rogers accumulated twenty No. 1 country hits. The First Edition had taught Kenny Rogers how to stand in front of an audience. Its breakup forced him to find out what would happen when he had to stand there by himself.

BEFORE THE EAGLES HAD A NAME, GLENN FREY AND DON HENLEY WERE STANDING BEHIND LINDA RONSTADT. ONE SUMMER ON THE ROAD HELPED CONVINCE THEM THEY SHOULD HAVE A BAND OF THEIR OWN. Los Angeles in the early 1970s was full of musicians moving between country, folk and rock. Linda Ronstadt was already near the center of that world. Glenn Frey had come from Detroit and was playing with J.D. Souther. Don Henley had arrived from Texas with his band Shiloh. In 1971, Ronstadt hired both men for her touring band. Almost immediately, Frey heard something in the combination. Country instrumentation, rock energy and close harmonies were beginning to mix in a way that felt different. During the tour, Frey and Henley started talking seriously about forming a band of their own. They told Ronstadt. She did not try to hold them back. Frey later credited her with helping them make the new group happen. Two more musicians completed the lineup. Bernie Leadon brought deep country and bluegrass roots from the Flying Burrito Brothers. Randy Meisner had already played with Poco and Rick Nelson’s Stone Canyon Band. By the fall of 1971, Frey, Henley, Leadon and Meisner had become the Eagles. But a new band still needed a sound. One of the songs that helped define it was sitting unfinished nearby. Jackson Browne had been working on “Take It Easy” but had stalled on part of the song. Frey helped finish it, earning a co-writing credit. The Eagles recorded it with Frey on lead vocal and Leadon’s banjo pushing the track toward country without making it traditional country. In May 1972, **“Take It Easy” became the Eagles’ first single.** It was also their breakthrough. More hits followed, then *Desperado*, “Best of My Love,” “Lyin’ Eyes,” “Take It to the Limit” and eventually *Hotel California*. Within a few years, the band that had grown out of the Los Angeles country-rock scene had become one of the biggest acts in American music. But “Take It Easy” had already revealed the formula. A Detroit singer, a Texas drummer, a bluegrass-rooted guitarist and a bassist from California country-rock had taken pieces from different worlds and made them sound like they belonged together. That mixture became the Eagles.

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TERRI CLARK MOVED FROM CANADA TO NASHVILLE AT 18 AND STARTED SINGING FOR TIPS AT TOOTSIE’S. SHE COULD SEE THE COUNTRY-MUSIC BUSINESS AROUND HER — BUT IT TOOK NEARLY EIGHT YEARS BEFORE ANY LABEL LET HER THROUGH THE DOOR. Terri Clark left Medicine Hat, Alberta, for Nashville as a teenager with little more than a guitar and a very clear idea of what she wanted. Soon after arriving, she walked into **Tootsie’s Orchid Lounge**, the famous honky-tonk across the alley from the Ryman Auditorium, asked if she could sing and landed work performing for tips. It was her first professional Nashville gig. The location made the situation almost cruelly appropriate. Tootsie’s sat in the middle of country-music mythology, close enough to the Ryman and Music Row to make Nashville success feel physically nearby. Clark later remembered playing those clubs hoping that somebody from the industry might hear her voice drifting out and offer her a record deal. Nobody did. For years, she kept singing while taking whatever work helped pay the bills. She waited tables, worked as a secretary, painted houses, worked retail and tended bar. One contemporary profile put the wait at roughly **eight years** between her arrival in Nashville and the record deal she had come there to find. There were days when even Tootsie’s barely paid. Clark has recalled taking a city bus downtown with her guitar to work the daytime shift and occasionally walking out with only a few dollars in tips because almost nobody had come through the bar. Still, the years were doing something a demo tape could not. She was learning how to hold a room. A producer who heard Clark at Tootsie’s eventually passed a tape to manager Woody Bowles. She continued developing for several more years, and in 1994 Mercury Nashville finally signed her. Then the pace changed almost immediately. Her debut single, **“Better Things to Do,”** arrived in 1995 and climbed to No. 3 on the U.S. country chart. “When Boy Meets Girl” and “If I Were You” followed into the Top 10, while her self-titled debut album eventually went platinum. Clark had written or co-written almost the entire record herself. The following year alone, she spent more than **260 days on the road**. That number says more about the turnaround than almost anything else. For most of her twenties, Terri Clark had been working Nashville bars while waiting for somebody in the industry to notice. Once they finally did, the problem was no longer finding somewhere to sing. It was finding enough days in the year to play all the places that suddenly wanted her.

WHEN THE FIRST EDITION BROKE UP, KENNY ROGERS SAID IT FELT LIKE HIS LIFE HAD LOST ITS FOOTING. HE WALKED ONSTAGE ALONE, STARTED OVER — AND WITHIN TWO YEARS “LUCILLE” TURNED HIM INTO A SOLO SUPERSTAR. By the mid-1970s, Kenny Rogers was hardly an unknown. The First Edition had already given him major pop and country hits, including “Just Dropped In (To See What Condition My Condition Was In)” and “Ruby, Don’t Take Your Love to Town.” For years, Rogers had been surrounded by the same musicians, the same road routine and the security of belonging to a group. Then the band ended. The First Edition broke apart in the mid-1970s as its members moved toward separate careers. Rogers later admitted the split hit him harder than outsiders might have expected. “When the First Edition broke up,” he recalled, “it was like my life had just lost all the footing.” For the first time, there was nobody behind him to absorb part of the pressure. Rogers signed with United Artists and began making records under his own name. The first releases produced modest results, but nothing yet suggested that the 38-year-old singer was about to become bigger than he had ever been with a band. Then he heard “Lucille.” Written by Roger Bowling and Hal Bynum, the song told a simple story: a woman leaves her husband in a bar, and the man she leaves with later hears the husband’s side of what happened. Rogers recorded it in 1976. Released the following year, “Lucille” went to No. 1 country and No. 5 pop, won Rogers a Grammy and was named CMA Single of the Year. More importantly, it solved the identity problem. Rogers was no longer the singer from a psychedelic pop group trying to continue on his own. “Lucille” revealed exactly what would carry the next phase of his career: a rough, conversational voice and story songs about ordinary people making painful choices. “The Gambler,” “She Believes in Me” and “Coward of the County” followed soon afterward. Between 1977 and 1987, Rogers accumulated twenty No. 1 country hits. The First Edition had taught Kenny Rogers how to stand in front of an audience. Its breakup forced him to find out what would happen when he had to stand there by himself.

BEFORE THE EAGLES HAD A NAME, GLENN FREY AND DON HENLEY WERE STANDING BEHIND LINDA RONSTADT. ONE SUMMER ON THE ROAD HELPED CONVINCE THEM THEY SHOULD HAVE A BAND OF THEIR OWN. Los Angeles in the early 1970s was full of musicians moving between country, folk and rock. Linda Ronstadt was already near the center of that world. Glenn Frey had come from Detroit and was playing with J.D. Souther. Don Henley had arrived from Texas with his band Shiloh. In 1971, Ronstadt hired both men for her touring band. Almost immediately, Frey heard something in the combination. Country instrumentation, rock energy and close harmonies were beginning to mix in a way that felt different. During the tour, Frey and Henley started talking seriously about forming a band of their own. They told Ronstadt. She did not try to hold them back. Frey later credited her with helping them make the new group happen. Two more musicians completed the lineup. Bernie Leadon brought deep country and bluegrass roots from the Flying Burrito Brothers. Randy Meisner had already played with Poco and Rick Nelson’s Stone Canyon Band. By the fall of 1971, Frey, Henley, Leadon and Meisner had become the Eagles. But a new band still needed a sound. One of the songs that helped define it was sitting unfinished nearby. Jackson Browne had been working on “Take It Easy” but had stalled on part of the song. Frey helped finish it, earning a co-writing credit. The Eagles recorded it with Frey on lead vocal and Leadon’s banjo pushing the track toward country without making it traditional country. In May 1972, **“Take It Easy” became the Eagles’ first single.** It was also their breakthrough. More hits followed, then *Desperado*, “Best of My Love,” “Lyin’ Eyes,” “Take It to the Limit” and eventually *Hotel California*. Within a few years, the band that had grown out of the Los Angeles country-rock scene had become one of the biggest acts in American music. But “Take It Easy” had already revealed the formula. A Detroit singer, a Texas drummer, a bluegrass-rooted guitarist and a bassist from California country-rock had taken pieces from different worlds and made them sound like they belonged together. That mixture became the Eagles.

REBA McENTIRE ALREADY HAD No. 1 HITS — AND STILL DIDN’T LIKE THE RECORDS SHE WAS MAKING. SO IN 1984, SHE TOOK CONTROL AND TOLD NASHVILLE EXACTLY WHAT “MY KIND OF COUNTRY” SOUNDED LIKE. By 1983, Reba McEntire had been recording professionally for years. Mercury had signed her in the 1970s, and the climb had been slow: early albums sold modestly, singles came and went, and Nashville spent years trying different ways to package her voice. Eventually the hits arrived. “Can’t Even Get the Blues” became her first No. 1 in 1983. “You’re the First Time I’ve Thought About Leaving” followed it to the top. Reba was finally succeeding on country radio. But she still felt something was wrong. When her Mercury contract ended, Reba signed with MCA. Her first album there, Just a Little Love, came out in January 1984. It produced another hit, but the larger problem remained: after seven albums, Reba still felt she had not made a record that sounded like the country music she actually loved. The frustration came to a head while preparing the next album. Reba later remembered sitting through songs that were presented to her as country material. She kept disagreeing. “That’s not country to me,” she would say. Finally she was asked the obvious question: What was country to her? Reba kept giving the same answer. “My kind of country.” The phrase stuck. More importantly, this time she was allowed to do something she had never really been able to do before: choose the songs herself and take meaningful control of her sound. Her official discography describes My Kind of Country as the first album where she had that freedom. Harold Shedd produced it. Reba went backward to move forward. She wanted the kind of country she had grown up listening to in Oklahoma—Patsy Cline, Loretta Lynn, Tammy Wynette, Ray Price. Less concern about crossing over to pop. More steel, fiddle, heartbreak and room for her voice to bend around a lyric. On October 15, 1984, MCA released My Kind of Country. The first major payoff was “How Blue.” It went to No. 1. Then “Somebody Should Leave” did the same. But the bigger change happened before the second single had finished its run. At the 1984 CMA Awards, Reba McEntire was named Female Vocalist of the Year for the first time. She later remembered the effect as immediate: suddenly people who had been only vaguely aware of her knew exactly who she was. She would win the same CMA award again in 1985. And 1986. And 1987. The woman who had spent nearly a decade experimenting with songs, clothes and different versions of herself had become the dominant female country vocalist of the middle 1980s. The records kept growing from there. “Whoever’s in New England” brought another No. 1 and Reba’s first Grammy. She joined the Grand Ole Opry in 1986. In 1987, she sold out Carnegie Hall in New York. None of those things had happened when Nashville finally discovered some secret new way to manufacture Reba McEntire. They happened after Reba walked into the song-selection process and started saying no.