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FARON YOUNG HAD SUNG “LIVE FAST, LOVE HARD, DIE YOUNG.” THEN ONE NIGHT, HE FIRED A GUN INTO HIS OWN KITCHEN CEILING AND HIS MARRIAGE BEGAN TO COME APART. Hilda Macon had been there before the legend got old. Faron met her while he was stationed at Fort McPherson in the early 1950s. She was the daughter of an Army master sergeant and came from country-music blood herself, with Uncle Dave Macon in the family line. They married in 1954, after Faron left the Army. Then came the children, the road, the records, and the years when Faron Young was one of the loudest men in Nashville. He was the “Young Sheriff.” He had No. 1 records. “Live Fast, Love Hard, Die Young.” “Hello Walls.” “It’s Four in the Morning.” He helped build Music City News, backed writers, made stars laugh, made enemies mad, and filled rooms with the kind of personality that did not know how to stay small. But the house got the other part of him. By the 1980s, the drinking had become harder to manage. The hits were not coming the same way. On December 4, 1984, inside their Harbor Island home, Faron fired a pistol into the kitchen ceiling. Hilda wanted him to get help for his drinking. He refused. The marriage split after that. They separated, sold the house, and bought separate homes. At the divorce trial, when Faron was asked if he feared hurting someone by shooting holes into the ceiling, he answered, “Not whatsoever.” In 1987, after more than three decades together, the marriage was over. The public had known Faron Young as the man who could make honky-tonk sound cocky, bright, and dangerous. Hilda had heard the gun go off in the kitchen.

BLACKHAWK WAS BUILT AROUND THREE VOICES. THEN CANCER TOOK ONE OF THEM — AND HIS LAST REQUEST WAS NOT TO LET THE BAND DIE WITH HIM. Before BlackHawk became one of the most recognizable harmony groups of 1990s country, its three members had already lived separate musical lives. Henry Paul had come out of the Southern rock band the Outlaws. Dave Robbins and Van Stephenson had spent years writing songs in Nashville, including material connected to Restless Heart. Stephenson had even made his own run at pop success, reaching the Top 30 in 1984 with “Modern Day Delilah.” By the early 1990s, Paul, Robbins, and Stephenson began writing and recording demos together. What separated them was not one dominant voice. It was the way all three voices locked together—Henry in front, Dave underneath, and Van carrying the high tenor that made the choruses sound larger than the three men standing at the microphones. Arista Nashville signed them in 1993. Their first single, “Goodbye Says It All,” reached the country Top 20. “Every Once in a While,” “I Sure Can Smell the Rain,” “That’s Just About Right,” and “There You Have It” followed. Their self-titled debut album eventually went double platinum. For several years, BlackHawk looked like one of the strongest new bands Nashville had built. Then, in early 1999, Van Stephenson was diagnosed with melanoma. He underwent treatment and surgery while the band’s future became increasingly uncertain. By February 2000, Stephenson stepped away from BlackHawk so he could continue fighting the disease and spend more time with his wife and three children. The loss was not simply a vacant position onstage. Van’s tenor had been part of the architecture of every BlackHawk harmony. Henry Paul and Dave Robbins could hire another musician, but they could not recreate the years of writing, recording, and learning how three particular voices breathed together. Stephenson understood that. He also understood what his absence might do to the two men left behind. Before his death, he asked Paul and Robbins to continue. His message was simple: there was still more music left in BlackHawk. Van Stephenson died at his Nashville home on April 8, 2001. He was 47. BlackHawk’s Greatest Hits album was dedicated to him and included “Ships of Heaven,” a final song connected to the man whose high harmony had helped define the band. Paul and Robbins then carried BlackHawk forward, not by pretending nothing had changed, but by accepting that it had changed permanently. They also established the Van Stephenson Memorial Cancer Research Fund, directing money toward cancer research at Vanderbilt-Ingram Cancer Center. Over the years, the band and its fans raised nearly a quarter of a million dollars in his name. BlackHawk continued touring. New voices entered the lineup. Henry Paul and Dave Robbins kept singing the old songs. But whenever those original recordings reach the chorus, Van Stephenson is still there—in the highest part of the harmony, holding a place no replacement was ever truly asked to erase.

CRAIG MORGAN WROTE A SONG ABOUT HIS DEAD SON AND DID NOT PLAN TO RELEASE IT. THEN RICKY SKAGGS HEARD IT AT THE OPRY AND TOLD HIM THE WORLD NEEDED TO HEAR IT. Jerry Greer was nineteen when the lake took him. On July 10, 2016, Craig Morgan’s son was tubing with friends on Kentucky Lake in Tennessee when the accident happened. He was wearing a life jacket. Search crews found his body the next day. Craig and his wife, Karen, buried their son on their Tennessee property near the family chapel. For three years, Craig carried it mostly inside the house. He had been a soldier before country music. He had sung “Almost Home,” “That’s What I Love About Sunday,” and “International Harvester.” His songs had always sounded like faith, work, family, and the kind of people who keep going because stopping is not an option. But losing Jerry was not a song he was trying to sell. Then “The Father, My Son, and the Holy Ghost” came out of him. Craig wrote it and sang it at the Grand Ole Opry. He thought it might stay there — one night, one room, one way to say something he could not say any other way. Ricky Skaggs heard it differently. He told Craig people needed to hear the song. So Craig recorded it. In 2019, the song was released without a big radio machine behind it. Then Blake Shelton heard it and started pushing people to buy it. Others followed. The song went to No. 1 on the iTunes all-genre chart. Craig Morgan did not turn Jerry into a single. He carried a song out of the Opry because another country singer told him not to leave it there.