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Vince Gill – What’s A Man To Do

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Introduction

When you listen to “What’s a Man to Do,” it feels like unearthing a diary page fluttering out from the past, each note and lyric imbued with raw, unfiltered emotion. This song, evocative and stirring, dives deep into the heart of personal dilemma and emotional vulnerability. It captures that quintessential moment of introspection where a man stands at life’s crossroads, wrestling with choices that define his journey.

The song’s allure lies not just in its melody but in the poignant questions it raises—questions about duty, love, and identity. It’s as though the singer is confiding in us, sharing his struggles as he weighs the heavy expectations placed on his shoulders against his desires and dreams. The lyrics resonate because they reflect universal feelings—of being caught between what the world expects of you and what your heart wants.

What makes “What’s a Man to Do” special is how it connects with listeners on a personal level. It’s not just a song; it’s a companion in times of confusion and solitude. The honesty in its words and the sincerity in its tune make it more than just a musical track—it’s a heartfelt expression that echoes in the quiet moments of our lives.

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Lyrics

Before the tears I’ve cried
Have even dried
She’ll be with him
They’ll look in each other’s eyes
And with her lips still warm with lies
She’ll kiss him
And though she knows she’s wrong
She just keeps on
Keepin’ me hangin’ on
Tell me
What’s a man to do
When the one he’s promised to
Finds somebody new
Should I just stand by
Watch the love I’ve lived for die
Lord I wish I knew
Tell me what’s a man to do
Instrumental
Maybe I’ll make a stand
Or just wash my hands
Of her forever
But I’ve never been alone
Except for here at home
When they’re together
And though I know it’s wrong
I let her go on
Keepin’ me hangin’ on
Telll me, what’s a man to do
When the one he’s promised to
Finds somebody new
Should I just stand by
Watch the love I’ve lived for die
Lord I wish I knew
Tell me what’s a man to do
Tell me what’s a man to do

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