
REBA McENTIRE RECORDED THE GOODBYE BEFORE HER FATHER WAS GONE
Four Services Without a Date
The McEntire family learned to prepare for Clark’s death without knowing when it would arrive.
After suffering a stroke in 2011, he fell into a coma. He survived the initial crisis, but his health remained fragile for years. Reba later recalled that the family prepared his funeral about four times. Each preparation required them to approach the same impossible threshold: selecting music, considering the service and arranging the words that would be used when Clark could no longer hear them.
Then he would improve.
The plans were put aside, but not discarded. His family understood that the reprieve did not amount to recovery. Their waiting simply resumed.
For Reba, whose professional life was organized around dates, rehearsals and precisely timed entrances, this was a different kind of calendar. There was no tour manager who could tell her when the next call would come. Her father was alive, yet the family had already been made to imagine the room without him.
That was the space into which “Just Like Them Horses” arrived.
The Cowboy Who Built Outward
Clark McEntire had made his life through rodeo before any of his children became famous.
He left school after the ninth grade and entered the working world surrounding cattle and competition. At nineteen, he won the all-around title at the 1947 Pendleton Round-Up. He later captured three world championships in steer roping—in 1957, 1958 and 1961—and entered the ProRodeo Hall of Fame in 1979.
His winnings became something more permanent. According to the Hall of Fame, Clark won a car in the early 1950s and combined it with $500 he had saved to acquire forty acres south of Kiowa, Oklahoma. Over time, that foothold expanded into thousands of acres of grazing land.
His children knew the work behind those numbers. Reba grew up hauling feed, helping with cattle and traveling the rodeo circuit with her siblings. Clark’s standards could be severe. He was not a father known for easy declarations of affection, and Reba has spoken about wanting his approval long after she had begun receiving applause from entire arenas.
The ranch taught love in another dialect: work completed, animals tended, instructions followed, the next morning met on time.
A Song Written Inside Another Family’s Grief
“Just Like Them Horses” did not begin with Clark McEntire.
Liz Hengber started writing it while facing the approaching death of a friend with cancer. The emotion became difficult to finish on her own, so she turned to fellow songwriter Tommy Lee James, who supplied the music and helped complete the piece.
That origin mattered. Reba was not taking language written specifically about a famous cowboy and fitting it neatly over her father’s life. She recognized Clark inside a song that had first belonged to somebody else’s impending loss.
The horses made the connection immediate, but the deeper fit was in the act of release. Clark had spent his life controlling ropes, cattle, land and the movement of animals. His final years placed him beyond the reach of that physical authority. The song allowed Reba to picture departure in terms that still belonged to him—not a hospital room or failing body, but open ground and forward motion.
She decided she wanted it for the funeral.
At that point, the recording was not meant to be a commercial statement. It was family preparation.
The Session Tony Brown Would Not Let Disappear
Reba entered the studio intending to make a spare recording, principally piano and voice. The purpose was practical and painfully specific: when Clark died, the family would already have the song.
Producer Tony Brown heard the performance and resisted allowing it to remain private. He believed it belonged on the album they were making.
His judgment changed the future of the recording without altering its first obligation. It would still serve at Clark’s funeral. But afterward, it would travel beyond the McEntire family and reach listeners carrying their own unfinished farewells.
This was one of the quieter decisions in Reba’s career. There was no calculated search for a grief anthem and no attempt to build a promotional event around her father’s illness. A daughter had prepared music for a service that kept being postponed. A producer heard that the recording could stand outside the room for which it had been made.
They kept it.
October 23, 2014
Clark McEntire died in Coalgate, Oklahoma, on October 23, 2014. He was 86.
The recording was ready.
At his funeral, the family heard the song in the setting Reba had imagined before his death. By then, its meaning had already crossed a boundary. In the studio, she had sung toward an event still waiting somewhere ahead. At the service, anticipation became memory.
Several months later, “Just Like Them Horses” appeared on Love Somebody. Reba dedicated the recording to her parents. The album reached listeners who knew little about steer roping, Chockie or the long period in which the McEntires had repeatedly prepared to lose Clark.
They did not need those facts to understand the song. But for Reba, the facts remained inside every line.
Taking the Song Back to Chockie
When the time came to make a video, Reba did not construct Clark’s world on a soundstage.
She returned to the McEntire homeplace in Chockie. The hills had formed the horizon of her first twenty-one years, long before Nashville, television or Las Vegas made her recognizable far beyond Oklahoma. In November weather, she filmed the land and horses in black and white.
The concept was hers. Reba said she had never previously served as the concept creator or director of one of her videos, but this one arrived in her mind with enough force that she felt compelled to follow it.
That choice kept the tribute from becoming an illustrated biography. There are no reenactments of championship rodeos and no actor pretending to be Clark in his prime. The camera moves through the country that remained after him. His absence is carried by the terrain rather than performed for it.
The ranch does not need to be told whom it has lost.
The Woman Driving the Truck
Reba also understood that the homeplace could not be shown honestly with only Clark’s memory in it.
Jacqueline McEntire had married him in 1950 and raised Alice, Pake, Reba and Susie while helping sustain the ranch. Reba described her mother’s contribution in the language of work: partner, bookkeeper, hired hand and cook. Jacqueline also taught the children to sing harmony during long rodeo trips, turning crowded car rides into the earliest rehearsals of the Singing McEntires.
In the video, Jacqueline does not stand beneath theatrical lighting and deliver a speech about widowhood. She drives a truck across the land and meets her daughter.
Her presence changes the tribute. The ranch was associated publicly with Clark—the champion roper whose winnings helped build it—but the camera acknowledges the labor that made his life possible between competitions. Jacqueline had kept accounts, fed people, worked beside him and held the family together through the years when the rodeo cowboy was away.
Reba began with a song for her father. By bringing her mother into the frame, she widened the family record.
What Reba’s Farewell Really Leaves Behind
Clark’s story contains the kind of achievements that fit easily onto plaques: three world championships, famous rodeo victories, a Hall of Fame induction and acreage accumulated from a small beginning.
Jacqueline’s work was harder to summarize. It happened in ledgers, kitchens, vehicles and the daily maintenance of a family whose public story would eventually become much larger than the ranch.
“Just Like Them Horses” preserved both kinds of labor.
The song carried Clark out in the imagery of the life he had chosen. The video then remained on the homeplace long enough to recognize the person who had kept that life functioning. Years after a daughter entered a studio to prepare for her father’s death, the final family portrait did not belong solely to the person leaving.
It also belonged to the woman still driving across the land.
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